When you're having sex on skype, or on the phone, this whole component is absent, and you have to make up for it by being insanely descriptive and sometimes even using fantasies that you wouldn't even want to happen in real life. I mean.real sex is awesome, there's so much going on with a look, or a touch, and these things convey SO much without you actually saying anything. However, if you have trouble there too, it means you need to get used to the different medium. If you can do that, then maybe you are camera shy. Well.you should test the camera-shy theory by having phone sex. Just hearing my girlfriend's reactions turns me on. You can even act things out as they are spoken, like if he's "on top of you," it might turn you on if he gets on his hands and knees, giving you a more realistic view.Īnyway, I guess this advice would be more aimed at your bf, but perhaps with some suggestions from you, he'll catch on and be able to help you come. You can even guide the conversation into something that turns you on even more, like "don't enter me yet I want you to rub your dick on my clit!" Just saying a couple things can guide your bf's dialogue to match your level of mental stimulation. I've also even described things we never tried when together, but once we talk about it, we want to try it for real later. Start with teasing, foreplay, move on to sex, talk about different positions. I never thought I'd be able to provide such a detailed, step by step dialogue, but once I start, it just comes naturally. I usually talk to her continuously telling her exactly what I'd do to her if I was there, and this really helps get her off. My recommendation for making it more mentally stimulating is dialogue. My girlfriend and I have such satisfying Skype sex.
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